This Is How I Spend My Life Doing What I Love
Is it possible to live your life doing what you want? I was trying to figure out a topic for this conversation based on an instagram post I recently wrote. Many years ago I found myself facing the question of, can I live my life doing exactly what I love and be supported well doing it? This questioning of my existence was the moment that began leading me down the path of actually living my dream life doing exactly what I want while being wildly supported.
This question and this statement or mantra is coming up a lot with my current clients. The idea or statement of I wanna do what I want, when I want, where I want, and with who I want. Can we live a life where we can do that? And ultimately the answer is YES. I think one of the first keys to really mastering that for yourself is realizing that it's a decision and it's a mindset to decide that whatever it is that you're doing is what you want to do.
This is the quickest way to get ourselves in the zone of doing what we want, how we want. I was writing this post earlier, for those of you who are close knit in my world, part of my inner circle, you know, that I just launched a certification program for psychedelic facilitators.
It's called The Elevated Experience Method. I'm very proud of it. It is a highlight or high point moment for my career. I'm starting to drop content, put the branding photos out and enrollment's officially open. I was writing this post today about “why” The Elevated Experience Method, how did I get to this place?
It started in 2014. I'm gonna tell you guys a little story….. I was freshly separated. I was a solo mom to a little boy, I'm not sure how old my son was at that time, but pretty little. And I was trying to learn how to be a creative entrepreneur. I was also going through a dark night of the soul otherwise known as my spiritual awakening.
I was really trying to figure things out. And I remember I had just gone to a Vipasana 10 day meditation and I was really deep on my path. I remember having this thought one day and the thought was, can I live my life doing what I wanna do? And at that time I was really good at throwing parties.
Business Launch Fundraiser 2015 ~Succulence Kona, Hawaii
Now ride with me on this one. I used to host this legendary event. I hosted it with my ex-husband and it was once a year. It was this incredible party and there was entertainment and there was connection.There were psychedelics, there was aesthetic, along with an amazing VIP list of guests. It was something really special that my community began to look forward to every single year and I loved doing it.
I was really, really, good at it. But I had reached a point where I was totally maxed out in my life and I couldn't just be like throwing a party and spending all of the time and resources that I spent to cultivate that experience for people. Even though they loved it, and I loved it. I remember walking through the hallway of my house and I had this thought….
“I wonder if I could throw parties for the rest of my life and get paid really well for it?” And it was just this thought that came through. I remember just sitting with that thought for a second and then there's judgment that comes through, right? Like what a silly thing to ask yourself? Like, oh, you just wanna throw parties the rest of your life? You want to get paid for partying?? Right.
But it was like this real thought that came through. I don't know if it was from my spirit guides or if it was from God or my higher self or where the thought was really coming from, but it landed. And I was like, I think that I can. I have a feeling that actually, in this lifetime, we can do exactly what we want and figure out a way to be supported for it.
Now, support and success looks different to everyone of course. For me to be supported and to be successful, that looks like being able to position what it is that I wanna do, my service or my gift for the world and actually be paid well for it. That is important to me. That is a high value moral for me.
I desire greatly and require being wildly supported on all levels for the things that I'm gonna do for the world.
That's just a real priority for me and very real standard. And so, yeah, I could throw parties and have fun and do all kinds of things and maybe not position myself to be paid well. However I wanted to figure out how to do exactly what I'm good at, the thing that is my purpose. Which side note, is almost always very clearly linked to what you're passionate about. If you're looking for your purpose or you're trying to figure out what it is that you wanna do, look into what you love and what lights you up.
A lot of people will tell you it's very closely linked to what you used to love to do when you were a child. Another way to understand and find it is to ask yourself would I actually do this for free? What is one of the things that I enjoy doing in my life, that I would do for free?
I had hosted these events and had been throwing these parties and honing my gift for many, many years for free. In that moment as a single mom and really trying to figure things out, going through a separation, I knew I needed to really try to understand how to position my life for success. How to direct my time, my gifts and my service to the world to have a greater successful impact. Both for the people out there in the world and for myself.
Event Performance Art ~Kona, Hawaii
So that is the beginning of my crazy radical self development journey that has turned into a business development journey. Which is now the fruition of where I'm at. It's how I built my company, Elevated Experience. It’s how I became the illumin8trix. I am the living embodiment of figuring out how to do exactly what I love, become really good at it and position it so that I can be greatly supported both energetically and tangibly, specifically financially.
And that's what I do. I throw great parties. I host programs classes, events, and experiences. They are beautiful. They have aesthetic. They have intention. They're community driven. They are fun. They are luxurious. They involve psychedelic medicine work, whether we're in an intentional microdosing type, let's learn about ourselves setting, or a very extreme macro style psychedelic experience. Reach to me if you are interested in working with me on this level.
Girls Trip ~Joshua Tree, California
One of my favorite parties is my signature girls trip retreat that I host several times a year around the world. I am literally throwing parties and playing in the psychedelic realm as my job. I am connecting deeply with my people and providing an epic experience that is actually a spiritual awakening transmission underneath it all. This is what I do for a living and I'm being paid well. I am being supported well on many levels. I am living proof that YES, we can actually figure out how to do what it is that we are meant to do and what we are gifted to do. We have a purpose to give to the world and we can be greatly supported in the giving of it.
Now again, success doesn't look the same for everybody. Not everybody wants to get wildly paid, hold a platform, become famous for, or be known for what it is that they wanna do. The whole point is you figuring out what it is that you want to do and figure out how to position it. Position it to be supported by and successful in the ways that feel good for you.
This is what really led me to reaching the level that I'm at now with the work that I'm doing and positioning me to create something like a certification program. The Elevated Experience Method is a certification program for psychedelic facilitators. This is for medicine people, men and women who are gifted in the arts of healing, transformation arts, spirit work, guides and people that have deep relationships with psychedelics. People that have experienced radical transformation assisted by psychedelics in their own life. This is also for people who already have established their purpose work in the coaching and mentorship industries. People who are leading others in transformation. People who want to learn more about the power of psychedelics to experience how to bring them into their practices as a new leading edge tool for expansion in the self development world.
I know that psychedelics are my number one tool for self development. I will sing that on top of the mountain with the praise that it deserves until my life ends.
My number one tool for self development has been psychedelics and The Elevated Experience Method is for those of you who are working with psychedelics, whether on a casual or very formal level, and you are seeing radical change happen in your own life.
That's who this is for number one. Number two, it's for people who are working with clients or desire to work with clients, and want to introduce these medicines into the work they're doing. Because they know how potent, amazing and beautiful they can be for transformation. The Elevated Experience Method is not me simply me teaching you my way to do things my way….
It's me coming in and creating an experience for you to deepen into your relationship with psychedelics. To lead you in how to optimize the integration process and transformational potential for the people you are leading. I am sharing my experience and blueprint for how to bring the work that you want to do in the psychedelic medicine field, into the world. Most importantly how to do it with Integrity and how to do it well.
This experience will reveal what your most potent gifts are within your facilitation work. You will clarify what kind of offerings you want to have. It's a personal development program inside a business development program, inside a certification. It’s for people who know they are meant to be part of the psychedelic revolution that we are very much in right now. The business of psychedelics is here.
There are many different ways to facilitate ceremony work, many different ways to facilitate psychedelic medicine work. The EE Method is a certification program to position you to know or expand what you want to faciliate, and how you can actually do it. This program will teach you how to bring that to life. You will clarify your niche and figure out how to be successful doing this work.
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One of the greatest things about this is we're creating an affiliation. This is a community driven offering. This is me saying, “I desire to link arms with you. I desire to bring you into these methods and teachings that I know work and are designed for success. I desire to invite you into this network of support so that you can be on this leadership team for psychedelics with me. I have chosen to stand in my leadership. I have chosen to ride this wave. I have chosen to do a wild innovative thing and create a freaking certification program because I know my methods and I know my way works. I am the embodiment of the success I've been able to build through The Elevated Experience Method”
I want that for you too. We are in an incredible time right now where psychedelic medicine is all the rage. I'll say this again.
“Mushrooms are the new avocado toast”
Everyone and their brother, and their mama is microdosing. It is becoming all too common and all too very real right here in front of our faces.
The psychedelic revolution is here. This is your invitation to join me. This is your invitation to step forward and decide. To be part of this movement. This is your invitation to take a look at everything that you've learned about yourself, through your own psychedelic experiences and decide that you want to take those lessons, take that experience and turn it into a gift or your passion, your service for the world.
If you link arms with me in the elevated experience method, I'm gonna teach you how to do this well, so that you can do it with integrity. So that you can do it responsibly and you can do it in a way to support you financially, cuz I don't know about you, but for me I wanna be paid for my service in the world.
And I want that for you too.
To circle back into what this topic of conversation originally was, is it possible to live your life, doing the work that you want to do in the world? Doing what you want?
Yes, absolutely. 100% it is possible. Let me be your permission slip. Let me be your example. And let me be the one to tell you first hand that you can decide exactly what you want to do, and you can do it in the world and you can do it well. You can position it to serve a lot of people and you can be supported wildly for it.
Come with me. The application process is open. Apply Here. There's all kinds of information. My DMS are always open. There's also a link for you to have a conversation with myself or my team to explore this thoroughly and to find out if it's definitely for you.
I want you with me.